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How to Say "I hate you" in Malay

The SPAIKING TeamJuly 27, 2026
Saya benci kamu
"I hate you" in Malay 路 say it like sah-yah ben-chee kah-moo

The most natural way to say "I hate you" in Malay is Saya benci kamu. Tap the speaker above to hear it, then say it back out loud. That is the fastest way to make it stick.

Other ways to say it

Aku benci kamu
More casual and intimate, often used among friends
Saya tidak suka kamu
A softer way to express dislike

When to use it

Use this phrase when you want to express strong dislike towards someone. It can be used in personal conflicts or when discussing feelings. Be cautious, as it can be very hurtful.

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Examples in Malay

MalayEnglish
Saya benci kamu kerana kamu selalu berbohong.I hate you because you always lie.
Common mistake
Learners often confuse 'benci' with 'tidak suka', which is less intense.

The fastest way to remember it

Vocabulary you only read fades fast. Vocabulary you say out loud sticks. Hear Saya benci kamu, repeat it a few times, then use it in a real sentence. SPAIKING lets you practice exactly that, speaking Malay with a coach that corrects your pronunciation in real time. You can start with two free conversations.

Frequently asked questions

Is it okay to say 'I hate you' in Malay?

It's very strong and can hurt feelings, so use it carefully.

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