🇯🇵 Japanese phrases

How to Say "I hate you" in Japanese

The SPAIKING TeamJuly 27, 2026
あなたが嫌いです
"I hate you" in Japanese · say it like ah-na-ta ga ki-ra-i desu

The most natural way to say "I hate you" in Japanese is あなたが嫌いです. Tap the speaker above to hear it, then say it back out loud. That is the fastest way to make it stick.

Other ways to say it

嫌いだ
more casual and direct, often used among friends
大嫌いです
stronger expression, used when feelings are very intense

When to use it

This phrase is quite strong and can hurt someone's feelings. Use it carefully, especially in serious situations. It's more common to express dislike in a softer way. Consider your relationship with the person before using this phrase.

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Examples in Japanese

JapaneseEnglish
あなたが嫌いですI hate you
彼は本当に嫌いだI really hate him
Common mistake
Some learners might use this phrase too casually, not realizing its weight.

The fastest way to remember it

Vocabulary you only read fades fast. Vocabulary you say out loud sticks. Hear あなたが嫌いです, repeat it a few times, then use it in a real sentence. SPAIKING lets you practice exactly that, speaking Japanese with a coach that corrects your pronunciation in real time. You can start with two free conversations.

Frequently asked questions

Is there a softer way to express dislike?

Yes, you can say 'あまり好きじゃない' which means 'I don't really like (you).'

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