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How to Say "I hate you" in Dutch

The SPAIKING TeamJuly 27, 2026
Ik haat je
"I hate you" in Dutch 路 say it like ik haat yuh

The most natural way to say "I hate you" in Dutch is Ik haat je. Tap the speaker above to hear it, then say it back out loud. That is the fastest way to make it stick.

Other ways to say it

Ik kan je niet uitstaan
A more casual way to express strong dislike
Ik heb een hekel aan je
A slightly softer expression of dislike

When to use it

Use this phrase when you want to express strong negative feelings towards someone. It is quite direct and can be hurtful, so be cautious about when you say it. It is best used in heated moments or when you are very upset.

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Examples in Dutch

DutchEnglish
Ik haat je omdat je altijd te laat bent.I hate you because you are always late.
Common mistake
Learners often confuse 'haat' with 'haatje', which is incorrect.

The fastest way to remember it

Vocabulary you only read fades fast. Vocabulary you say out loud sticks. Hear Ik haat je, repeat it a few times, then use it in a real sentence. SPAIKING lets you practice exactly that, speaking Dutch with a coach that corrects your pronunciation in real time. You can start with two free conversations.

Frequently asked questions

Is it common to say 'ik haat je' in Dutch?

It's not very common in everyday conversation due to its harshness.

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