🇨🇳 Chinese phrases

How to Say "I hate you" in Chinese

The SPAIKING TeamJuly 27, 2026
我恨你
"I hate you" in Chinese · say it like wǒ hèn nǐ

The most natural way to say "I hate you" in Chinese is 我恨你. Tap the speaker above to hear it, then say it back out loud. That is the fastest way to make it stick.

Other ways to say it

我讨厌你
more casual and less intense than '我恨你'

When to use it

Use this phrase when expressing strong negative feelings towards someone. It can be used in heated arguments or when someone has deeply hurt you. Be cautious, as it can damage relationships.

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Examples in Chinese

ChineseEnglish
我真的恨你!I really hate you!
Common mistake
Some learners might confuse '恨' (hate) with '不喜欢' (dislike), which is less intense.

The fastest way to remember it

Vocabulary you only read fades fast. Vocabulary you say out loud sticks. Hear 我恨你, repeat it a few times, then use it in a real sentence. SPAIKING lets you practice exactly that, speaking Chinese with a coach that corrects your pronunciation in real time. You can start with two free conversations.

Frequently asked questions

Is it common to say '我恨你' in everyday conversation?

It's quite strong and usually reserved for serious situations.

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